How do you achieve a prostate orgasm?

A lot has been said about the g-spot (some by me, I must admit) and the ear shattering female orgasms that come with the right stimulation of the mythical female spot. But did you know men can also achieve similarly intense orgasms by learning how to correctly stimulate their prostate? That’s right fellas.  Today I’m going to talk about prostate orgasm and how to go about achieving it. You don’t want to miss out on the juice.

But first, what is prostate orgasm?

Many doubt whether prostate orgasm does exist and actually treat stories and information about it as myths.   But believe it or not, it exists and it can be easily achieved by any man. In this article I’ll give you some tips to help you achieve prostate orgasm.

Most men think of the penis as their most sensitive sexual organ.  The truth is, the penis is far from the only organ of pleasure in the male body. The prostate gland, also known as the P-spot, is an internal organ found 3-4 inches (7.5-10cm) from the beginning of the anal canal.  Its location means few men are aware of its presence. It’s just behind and above the deepest portion of the penis with the urethra running through its center.  During arousal, the prostate actually fills up with a fluid that it releases during ejaculation.

Stimulating the prostrate can be an extremely pleasurable activity, more enjoyable than inserting your dick in a vagina, I daresay. On either side of the prostate are nerves that control erection.  These nerves can be stimulated by touching and stroking the prostate which can be done using the finger or a sex toy (internal and external).  To achieve an orgasm, you have to be fully relaxed and into the stimulation. You are likelier to achieve a more intense orgasm if you have not cum for long as there will be more sperms in your balls. However, this doesn’t mean one cannot achieve prostate orgasm daily or even several times a day. So, how does one go about it?

You have to be aroused

It doesn’t matter where you decide to get off; you have to be aroused.  That’s a no brainer to be honest. When you are aroused, there is increase in blood flow to the area and the prostate swells (just like the clit) which makes it easier to find and stimulate.  Do whatever you have to do to get yourself in the groove. Watching some porn is a good idea.

Relax the body and mind

The best way to achieve prostate orgasm is by being relaxed both in mind and in body. Take a hot shower and spend time cleaning yourself from head to toe. Put on some soothing music, meditate, do some light exercises or whatever you have to do to feel calm and relaxed. You don’t want anything spoiling your mood.


Massaging the prostate is one of the ways the ways to achieve prostate orgasm.  This can be done using the fingers or a prostate massager.  Because the prostate is located several inches inside the anal canal, internal stimulation might be your best bet. Whichever way you go about it, remember the prostate receives the slow, tender, and soft stimulation.  Some men may take hours to achieve orgasms by using their fingers so a toy would go a long way. Identifying the right area to massage is equally important and you might want to spend several minutes identifying the right areas to touch as part of your preparation.

Toy recommendation

I’m not going to make a prostate toy recommendation, but there are loads of options in our online sex toy shops section. Go with whatever works for you. Toy play is the most efficient and effective way of achieving a prostate orgasm, but while it is highly recommended, you don’t have to absolutely use a toy, your fingers or any other SAFE item will do.

If you have no qualms inserting a sex toy up your butt, go with the prostate massager, which is essentially a butt plug with a curve or angle made specifically to stimulate the right areas. Because they come in all shapes and sizes, you may want to spend time finding what best works for you but if you do, it makes the process easier.


This is probably the first thing I should have mentioned. You are gonna need lots of lube. Remember your butt doesn’t produce any lubrication and without lube, any attempt at prostate massage will feel like you are using fucking sandpaper. Water based lubes are totally acceptable when it comes to anal play, but you also have the option of oil and silicon based lubes.  I’ll leave you to use your discretion.

Pegging for maximum stimulation

Let’s say you don’t want to penetrate your butt with a dildo and you hate being a bottom gay. In that case you have one option; getting penetrated by a woman. We all know girls don’t have cocks so that will mean using a strap on for penetration. Believe me, many women love pinning down their men. Pegging is pretty popular nowadays and you will find plenty of girls who will stimulate your prostate for maximum pleasure.


As you have established, prostate orgasms can be achieved by externally or internally stimulating the prostate.  The process of prostate stimulation is as pleasurable as the orgasm itself and will give you plenty of pleasurable feelings. Once you’ve managed to nail it, you will want to do it over and over.

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