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How do you eat pussy?

It’s not easy giving the woman you love the kind of sexual pleasure she craves. A lot of men suck at pussy eating not because they don’t like it, but because it’s fucking hard. It’s like an art, and whether you are 20 or 45 years old, there is always a thing or two to be learned about how to eat pussy the right way. Ultimately, your dick is not consistent and a woman’s most erogenous spot-the clit- is not inside her vagina. So, here is how it works; you either master the skill of eating pussy, or your woman will leave you for someone who will.

Contrary to popular opinion, women think about sex just as much as men, they are just better at hiding it. Women are always dreaming about a guy who can give them body shaking orgasms. They like a guy who knows how to eat pussy the right way. If you want my advice, make sure you are that guy who gives her orgasms that ‘runs up her spine’ and makes her ‘toes curl up’ when she thinks about them, or she’ll look elsewhere.

Now, just because you suck at pussy eating doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it, or you can’t be good at it.  The first step is reading the following tips and then using them.

Foreplay and arousal

The first step is getting your woman in the right frame of mind. You see, women are emotional creatures and it’s impossible to give her an orgasm when she is stressed or just finished work. It’s upon you to get her relaxed and forget all the pressures of the day. That’s where foreplay comes in because unlike men, women take longer to be aroused. You could be erect and ready for sex in 10 seconds, but for women, that could take 30 minutes, sometimes even longer. Take about 30 minutes for kissing and touching her in the right areas for the sexual energy and arousal to build up.

Focus on the whole body

It’s all about her pussy, but it is also important to pay attention to other parts of her body. You may start by kissing her boobs and her stomach, but don’t dwell on the boobs for so long, you should have taken care of that long before the pants came off. Focus on the stomach and inner thighs, use your finger to touch her clit, grab her ass. Get her whole body completely involved. Remember to occasionally look into her eyes because eye contact is equally important in keeping the connection.

Take it slow

I understand that you want to go straight to business, but don’t make that mistake.  This is not a fucking race, and her pussy is not something you are just going to attack with your mouth. Take your time and be slow. This is supposed to be a sensual experience, and while you could do it with some intensity, there is absolutely no need to be rough.

Do not say hi to dry because a dry pussy is an unhappy pussy. If your fingers touch a dry bush, go back to the touching and kissing. Sometimes moisture can get trapped in the labia, and just a little coaxing with your fingers will get her honey pot dripping. Don’t make the mistake of putting your fingers all the way inside because a women’s sexual pleasure is all about yearning and anticipation. The longer you keep her waiting, the more mind-shattering pleasure she will have.

Time to get down

If she is lathered up, congratulations. You’ve come a long way. Now it’s time to get down. Start working that crevice next to her lips, but don’t dwell on that for too long lest she thinks you are mistaking it for the real cunt. Work your way to the edge of her pussy, then skip it and move to the other side. Repeat this trick a few times, and she will be hot like a furnace. By now, she should be dying for you to make the next move. If you have been doing it right up to this point, she should be moaning and trying to force your head between her legs. Keep the anticipation building until she looks like she’s been holding her breath for a week.

Isolate the playing field by parting the pussy lips in such a way that the honeypot will be all set out for you like some big buffet. Your first lick should be super slow and should take about 4 seconds per lick. As you pass your tongue over her clit, she should convulse which is even better news. If there is no reaction when you gaze at her clit and pass over it with your tongue, her clit may not be sensitive enough, and you might be in for a long ride. Not to worry though; isolate the clit from the lips and give it full tongue stimulation.

One thing you should know is that clits come in all shapes and sizes, but they are all sensitive and should be treated slowly and softly, at least in the beginning. The only way you can tell whether you can pick up the pace is reading her reactions, and there are apparently no tips for that.

Finally

If she is moaning like crazy when you make one movement across her clit, don’t fucking stop. The reason many women are unable to orgasm with a guy is that when she is about to cum, she will moan louder and louder which makes the guy change his movement, thus driving the woman away from her orgasms and starting back at the beginning all over again. Be the master that listens to what she is not saying.

It might take some time to master these tips, but you can only perfect if you practice them. Now get yourself a girl and make her scream. Trust me; most women like having their pussy eaten, so don’t be afraid.

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