Why do women love to call you “Daddy” during sex?

Does your girlfriend call you “Daddy” during sex? You may have encountered a girl calling you ‘daddy’ during sex and wondered whether she had daddy issues. Or perhaps you felt old and weird? Whichever the case, this name has proven to be controversial, with many men feeling different things. Why would a grown girl call her man daddy during sex? Good question. I’ll pose another: Why would a man call his grown-up girlfriend ‘baby’? Sounds weird right?

Whatever you may have thought when she called you that, forget it for a second. ThePornDude is about to tell you why they do that, and I can assure you it has nothing to do with father issues, the thought of which is an absolute turn off for many men.

Daddy qualities

They say that low key, every girl has ever fantasized about fucking their fathers. That’s not exactly bad news, but it’s hardly the reason a woman will shout ‘daddy’ during that romp. It’s not the thought of fucking her father that turns her on; it’s the daddy qualities. Let me explain:

One of the qualities associated with daddies is dominance. Women love dominant men, precisely the reason 50 shades of grey has proven such a hit with ladies. A woman calls you daddy because she wants you to dominate her in bed.  Fuck it, she may not even call you that, but I can promise that she wants you to fucking dominate her. She wants you to take the lead and take her out of that sexual shell. Calling you daddy isn’t such a wrong way of doing that, is it?

Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, seems to agree with that line of thinking. While she admits the word daddy may indeed refer to father, women say it to ‘indicate when someone is the boss, in charge, a protector, or doing a good job. That’s usually the meaning women are going for in the bedroom.’ It’s so 1970’s, but still…

Role play

If you previously had issues with this particularly kinky slip of the tongue, time to let go. Some women do use the term as a form of role play. It’s all about being submissive and allowing the man to take the lead in the bedroom. In fact, men should be proud of being called daddy as it symbolizes the state of your relationship.

Fathers are known to be caring, assertive and best of all, supportive. What if I told you that your woman calls you daddy as a way of embracing those qualities in you? My bad, I already did.

Role play also allows people with strong personalities to let go. It has been established that a good chunk of the women who like being ‘submissive’ in bed and calling their partners daddy are actually high powered individuals in their day to day lives. This kind of role play allows them to let go, feel vulnerable and dominated.


Role plays are a good way of testing the boundaries of a relationship. Whichever role play you are into, it makes the women feel safe and loved. The thing is, with so many taboos surrounding the issue of sex, people have had to come up with their own ways to improve and manage desire.

Relationships, where partners engage in this kind of role play, are actually some of the healthiest. And because many women feel like they can’t openly ask for what they want in bed, they tend to come up with things that make them feel safer. And what better name than daddy? It’s their ideal way of expressing their pleasure and sexuality. The term daddy implies one who is a provider, someone who lovingly takes care of his girl and it is fucking hot anyway. It certainly sounds sexier than ‘master’ or ‘sir,’ don’t you think?

But why do women like being submissive in bed?

All the above points considered, you may ask yourself why women like being dominated in the bedroom. Well, there could be several reasons for that, but the main one is; it gives women an experience of surrender, especially if they are used to having control over other aspects of their lives. The more power they have, the more they like letting go and being submissive in the bedroom.

On top of that, there is some freedom in surrender, which gives women the opportunity to experience another part of themselves without worrying about what their partner thinks of them. The thing is, women are used to men initiating anything sex-related, which means men have to do everything to seduce the pants off the women. This in itself is a form of psychological submission on the women’s part. It’s almost like saying; I’m all yours for the taking, bring your best game.’ If you win her and she calls you daddy when you finally get between the legs, where is the harm? It means you’ve brought your A-game as far as I’m concerned.


It doesn’t matter how you look at it; if your woman calls you daddy during sex, it means she likes it that you are in control and being the dominating man you are supposed to be in the first place.

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